Saturday, October 31, 2009

Halloween Hodgepodge

This is the best title for a posting that I could think of for today. Well, it is Halloween and I am posting a variety of pictures taken over the last few weeks. My son Kodie wrapped up his football season today with a 14-0 victory. Kodie scored one of the touchdowns on about a 10 yard bubble screen pass. The weather for this mornings game was a bit miserable with cool temps. and a steady drizzle of rain. This marks four Saturdays in a row now where conditions have been rather dreary here in northeast Maryland. We have now traded in our windbreakers and snow shovels from North Dakota for some umbrellas to deal with our new surroundings. I am most likely in a minority when I say this, but I really do prefer snow over rain. I have lived in places in this country where we received more than 500 inches of snow in a year. It took some getting used to, but I still prefer that as long as there is a lot of sunshine to go along with it.
We are home this weekend after traveling the last two. We were in Pennsylvania two weekends ago to visit some family and then spent last weekend at my uncle's place in northern Virginia. I hope to get to some college football games over the last month of the season including the Army Navy game in about a month or so. I am also planning on doing some scouting to look for some guys who have the potential to play in Finland for us next summer. Hope you enjoy the pics and check out the link if you want a good laugh.


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Some people in life just get it! Okay, maybe I am a little biased in thinking that this is a great shirt. This guy was at Kodie's game this morning and his jersey represents the Old Steel Curtain Defensive Line of the Pittsburgh Steelers. #75 Mean Joe Greene, # 78 Dwight White, # 68 L.C. Greenwood, and #63 Ernie Holmes


This guy was definitely enthusiastic to say the least.


I thought my buddy Dusty Hess was an Eagles fan, but I am starting to wonder.


Thought this was a great costume.


The Slivoskey's are ready


Uncle Nick at his candy post


Our crazy cat Pumpkin sitting in his favorite chair--" Could somebody please pass me the remote?"


Cobblestoned streets of Old Town in Alexandria, Virginia


Uncle Richard's place in Virginia-- It is a very charming home.


The Slivoskey Trio


Kamryn and Kodie's jack'o lanterns


Uncle Richard is the master carver

The fall colors are brilliant near the clubhouse in our housing development



View at the entrance of our housing development

Lights out.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Got Healthcare?

It has been awhile since I stepped into any controversial topics, so maybe it is time that I stir things up a bit. My thoughts for the day center around the topic of government involvement in our health care system. I am having some trouble understanding why so many people, especially conservatives, are inclined to think that this is such a bad idea. After all, we as a nation seem to have very little concern over the fact that our gov't is involved in other public domains of society. For instance, the gov't seems to do an okay job of running our national parks. We don't seem to be too worried about their role in our public schools or demand that they allow us to manage our own road systems. For some reason, many people in our nation seem to get all bent out of shape when it comes to mentioning that the government wants to intervene in our current system.
In case you haven't noticed, our current system is in shambles. Many people don't have access to health care and the ones who do are struggling more and more to afford it. Costs are climbing rapidly and drug companies have many consumers at their mercy. It is sad to walk into a convenience store or a local pharmacy and see the images of sick Americans on cans or jars, many of whom have a terminal illness, asking for a donation to help them pay their medical bills.
Many people say they don't want to see our government get involved in another aspect of our lives because they will misuse their power and take advantage of Americans. The last time I checked it was the lack of government controls, and checks and balances that allowed corporate greed to take root in our country. Without regulation, corporate America led us astray and many big companies scammed hardworking Americans and cleaned out their pockets in the process. Banks lent money in an irresponsible manner, CEO pay skyrocketed, and many traders and hedge fund managers deceived the investing public and ran away with their money. The part I find ironic is that many of the same people who don't want government involvement are the first ones who demand that Congress act when things are falling apart and companies need bailed out. Also, many individuals don't seem to have a problem accepting assistance from the government in the form of food stamps, housing assistance, or even disaster relief when a tornado or hurricane hits our nation. Nobody seems bothered that the government offers protection from creditors when an individual is overwhelmed by debt and decides to file for bankruptcy. I have had a chance to receive health care from a country that offers socialized coverage and I believe that we should explore this as an OPTION for America. I paid more for the parking than the actual care during one emergency visit this past summer in Finland. Taxes are higher in these countries to cover this care, but I am all for raising taxes. It is time that we start realizing that this attitude of having our cake and eating it too just isn't realistic any longer in this country. There is something wrong with a nation where people can lose everything they worked for just because they are sick or are involved in an accident. I do realize that much of my argument on this matter is based on personal experience. I currently pay 1,000 a month out of my own pocket for family health coverage and this doesn't cover anything like eye care, dental visits, etc... I pay this much because I am on a cobra based plan from my previous employer. I have been refused coverage from the large companies because I was involved in an accident about 20 months ago. I tore my achilles tendon playing church league basketball and then developed some life threatening blood clots, which led to a series of surgeries and follow-up care. I was cleared by my doctors to be free of the blood clots last April, but I can't get insurance because of the medical costs the insurance company had to pay during treatment from the accident. Even though I supposedly had really good insurance, I still had to pay close to 4,000 dollars out of my pocket during this time. I am not naive enough to think that a new system is the answer to all our problems when it comes to medical coverage. However, I do think it is time for some real change. In my opinion, the current system is broken and needs to be overhauled. If no changes are made, health care costs are sure to keep skyrocketing and drug companies will keep preying on those who are in need of treatment.

Lights out.

Monday, October 19, 2009

A day I won't soon forget

As I've mentioned on some previous posts, I am very much into World War II history. I have probably read close to 100 books on the war and visited numerous sites related to this conflict. Some of these include the Washington D.C. Holocaust Museum, Hitler's Eagle's Nest in Germany, the War Museum of the North in Manchester, England, Dachau Concentration camp near Munich, Germany and Bastogne, Belgium which is considered the central point where the Battle of the Bulge was fought. About 7 weeks ago, I had a chance to visit the most ominous of all the Death Camps that Hitler and the Nazi's used to murder some 6 million Jews. This camp is known as Auschwitz and is located in southwest Poland, about a 45 minute drive from Krakow. The area where the camp lies is rather flat and is prone to flooding due to its location near the Sola and Vistula rivers. It is estimated that about 1.1 million of the 1.3 million people who entered the front gate of this camp never made it out alive. Most of these individuals were murdered by means of the gas chambers, but there were many other ways that people perished within the confines of the camp. Some of these include being starved to death, beatings, hangings, dysentery, typhus, exposure to the elements, medical experiments, or being shot by a firing squad. Auschwitz isn't too much different from the way it appeared back in the 1940's. However, the Nazi's did manage to destroy much of the evidence of the gas chambers and crematoriums in the camps at nearby Birkenau just before the war ended. I have had a lot of exposure and education regarding what went on at places like this, but Auschwitz really left a significant impression on me. The suffering that went on there is really just unspeakable. There are many artifacts that one can view when visiting the camp and these are also very powerful representations of this hell on earth. There are rooms full of personal items of the Jews including things like shoes, combs, baby strollers, pictures and even their own hair, which the Nazi's stole from them for the war effort. I know some people may be very disturbed by things like this, but I am one who believes that every person alive should visit a place like Auschwitz. For me, Auschwitz serves as a sobering reminder about the negative aspects of the human condition. The powerful use of propaganda and hatred led to the unpredictability of human behavior. On a much smaller scale, this sort of crazed behavior can often be witnessed at many sporting events. People often behave as if they are at the mercy of the environment that they place themselves in. This is sort of unsettling to really think about, but we must come to terms with our human frailties and work to educate our children about the value that lies within all people. Also, I think we can learn from the people who survived an experience like Auschwitz. These individuals suffered tremendously and the perspectives they gained from such a place should be heard by all. One perspective from a survivor that I found interesting went something like this: People asked me, "What did you learn?" and I think I'm only sure of one thing-- nobody knows themselves. The nice person on the street, you ask him, "Where is North Street?" and he goes with you half a block and shows you, and is nice and kind. That same person in a different situation could be the worst sadist. Nobody knows themselves. All of us could be good people or bad people in these different situations. Sometimes when somebody is really nice to me I find myself thinking, "How will he be in Sobibor?" (this perspective is given by Toivi Blatt, who survived the death camp at Sobibor and then risked his life to escape) In closing this post, I will just say that Auschwitz remains very "front and center" for me in my everyday life now. I shed some tears on the day of my visit for all the innocent men, women, and children who were murdered there. It is a day that I won't soon forget.

The remains of the gas chamber/crematorium at Auschwitz camp 1



One of the SS guard towers at the camp


This is the site at the edge of the camp where the German commandant of Auschwitz, Rudolf Hoss was executed in 1947- two years after the end of the war


The house where Commandant Hoss lived just outside the walls of the camp

One of the walkways lined by barbed wire on each side


The Wall of Death located just outside Block 11 where tens of thousands of prisoners were shot and killed by the German SS soldiers


Block 11-- which contained torture areas such as starvation cells;


another one of the blocks that was used to house prisoners

The gate leading to the main entrance of the camp


The camp was difficult to escape from and attempts were rarely successful-- The SS would randomly execute 10 people for each documented attempt


One of the guard towers near the entrance to the camp

Lights out.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Weekend activities


One of the many impressive rocks at appropriately named Rock State Park


The Molyneux, Bishop and Slivoskey Kids


A Maryland Crab smothered in Old Bay Seasoning


The newspapers are spread out, crabs are stacked up and we're ready for some eatin!


Here is a Steelers linebacker missing his two front teeth

One of the great things about living in Maryland again is the plethora of things to do, especially on the weekends. Many of the things that we find ourselves doing here are the same things that I did as a kid growing up in Western Pennsylvania. There is seemingly an abundance of festivals now that fall has settled in. In the past few weeks, we had the Swan Harbor festival, First Fridays in Havre De Grace, and the Apple Festival. We get our fill of football on the weekends with Kodie's games and then some Steelers football on Sundays. I still haven't had a chance to watch a high school football game, but we are planning to head to Pennsylvania on Friday night to watch my alma mater play. I just realized that the players I will be watching tomorrow night weren't even born when I played my last game for the mighty Wildcats of Latrobe High!
One of the best parts of last weekend was getting the chance to see my uncle and cousin from California and my grandparents from Pennsylvania. They made the trip to Maryland for a visit and we had a grand time. My Uncle David always provides a lot of entertainment for the kids and this visit was no different. He has the ability to make kids feel like they are the most valuable creatures on the planet, and kids really love hanging out with him and Aunt Meg. He is a very kind person and quick to think of others before himself. My grandparents really amaze me too. The are in their mid 80's now and still very sharp and self-sufficient. They can still do most things that anybody half their age can do, and they are people of exceptional faith and strong character. They have been a beacon of support, strength, and consistency in my life and our family feels very blessed to have them in our lives. I know Kodie was really excited as well to have his great grandparents see him play on Saturday.

After my side of the family visited, we finished up the weekend with a little crab feast with my wife's sister Angie and our brother-in-law Jim. They bought some Maryland crabs from a local seafood shop. We had a nice time learning the techniques involved with breaking apart the shells and eating these tasty crustaceans. This is a rite of passage when you live on the eastern shore of Maryland and I have a feeling we'll be doing it again before too long. Jim and Angie are really easy to be around and we're happy that we now get to see them and their daughter Natalie on a regular basis. On Sunday, we watched a little football and Estalita spent a good portion of the day working on one of her indexes. We took a break for a few hours in the afternoon to get some homemade ice cream from a local dairy farm and then we went hiking at Rock State Park with some new friends from our neighborhood. I've included a few pics of the weekend activities.

Before I log out, I just wanted to thank those of you who have been voting for me for the Good Mood Blogger contest. I appreciate your votes.

Lights Out.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Back to Finland / I could use your vote

Estalita and I made the final decision to head back to Finland next season for another summer of adventure and football. We have been leaning this way for some time now, but wanted to give ourselves a little more time before making a final decision. There are a number of reasons why we decided to go back. The kids enjoyed being in Finland and wanted to return for an encore. The management treated us well and they've made a commitment to building another strong team for the 2010 season. The players are very coachable and worked hard to keep getting better each and every practice. Finally, I want to finish the job and help bring a championship to the Crocodiles. We have some obstacles facing us as we look towards next season, but I am drawn to the challenges that have to be met to build a successful football team.

Now, I want to switch gears a little bit. Since leaving Finland about a month ago, I have been working on getting us settled into our new house. I am teaching a few distance ed. classes and will start substitute teaching here in Harford county next week. Also, I just recently started marketing myself for some freelance writing jobs. While researching some writing opportunities, I came across a contest that I decided to enter. Here is where I need your help. Actually, I need your vote. The winner of the contest will get to host a blog and post a daily journal that deals with moods. The winner also gets a monetary stipend for 6 months and a free laptop computer. The winner will be chosen from the top 20 vote getters, so that is why I am asking for your daily vote over the next 3 weeks. Yes, that is right. You can vote for me once a day by connecting to this link ( http://www.sam-e.com/job/profile/299 ) and then follow my progress on the site as well. Just to clarify, if you read my profile on the site, you will see that I was a first year assistant coach on a college team that once lost by 105 points. Yes, that is a true story!

Lights Out!

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Shots were fired!

Football practice ended early last night for Kodie and I. You probably won't believe why practice was cut short. I know I still can't believe it. I have had practices cut short over the years due to lightning strikes, severe sleet/snow in North Dakota, attack of the killer mosquitoes, (also in North Dakota), frustration due to no healthy quarterbacks (also in North Dakota), and probably a myriad of other reasons that I can't even remember. However, the practice was stopped last night due to gun fire near the practice field. It was about 7:15 and everything was going fine, and then shots were fired somewhere very close to the field. There were 3 youth teams practicing at the time, including Kodie's team. Most folks didn't seem too bothered by all the excitement, but the cops recommended that teams clear the field. The field is located adjacent to an area with an ominous reputation for trouble. Kodie and I quickly gathered up our things and left the area.
On a lighter note, Kodie played well in the game vs. the Colts last weekend. It was the Colts homecoming and Kodie was chosen as the offensive MVP by the opposing coaches. He played tailback and scored on a 15 yard touchdown run, so he was pretty excited about that. He received a medal for his efforts and we were all very proud of him.
Speaking of football, I want to congratulate George Contreras on accepting the head football coaching job for the Hurricanes, which are located in Hassleholm, Sweden. George has a passion for coaching, exploring new cultures, traveling, good food, and most importantly, his family. I feel a great kinship with him even though we have not yet met in person. George coached the Catania Elephants of the Italian Football Leage for the past two seasons. I owe a lot to George for helping me get started coaching in Europe and I wish him and his wife the best in Sweden.
I have one more comment before I close. The NFL is off to a wacky start again this year, but I am still confident that the Steelers will play well enough to earn a wildcard playoff spot by the end of the season. The Lions and Browns are on the schedule the next two weeks and neither team is even ranked in the NCAA top 25, so 4-2 is looking fairly promising right now. I get to see a lot of tv coverage on the Ravens with living in the Baltimore area now, and I do believe they are for real. I really don't see the Steelers sweeping that series again this season. In my opinion, the Colts are the premiere team in the league right now. A Colts vs. Giants Superbowl doesn't seem out of question this year. However, there is still a lot of football left to be played. I would like to see the Manning brothers square off against eachother in the Superbowl before their careers are over. That would be a fascinating matchup and probably a game for the ages.
Lights out.

Friday, October 2, 2009

Some time on my hands

Kamryn just after getting tossed off her boogie board


A lesson learned-- The Ocean does whatever it wants with you.


Here comes another wave.


2009 Boogie boarding champions


Oops-- think we just saw this wave


Kodie ready for impact



Forgot to mention-- that I recently dropped a few pounds!



A great day for waves and spray


The little sandcastle builder



Okay, that is really me

Things are starting to fall into place for us as of late and we are gradually settling into our new lives here in Havre De Grace. We recently sold our aqua massage unit in Minnesota, which was the last remaining remnant of the retail business we used to run in Arizona years ago. Our van sold two days ago on Craigs list, so that was a real blessing as well. We are now down to one vehicle, but we are going to see if we can make that work for a little while. The last few weeks have been especially rewarding from the standpoint of being at home more often and getting to spend a lot of time with Estalita and the kids. The other thing I am liking about being here is our neighbors. Neighbors are kind of like family in that you can't choose what you are going to get. One of the best things we have found about living here so far is the friendliness and compatibility that we have with many of our neighbors. We have become friends with a Puerto Rican family just a few places down from us. Our kids hang out quite a bit with theirs and really seem to get along well with each other. We have also met our other neighbors from Bangladesh and Israel. There is one other couple around our age who have two kids and we have spent some time hanging out with them and their family. They are animal lovers like us and the kids are similar in age too. The only problem with these people is that they are Cowboys fans, but then I have to remind myself that everybody has at least one major flaw in life. So far, our little development here has proven to be a friendly and hospitable place. The other thing that I like about Havre De Grace is the idyllic nature that embodies the little town. As I mentioned before, this town lies at the point where the Susquehanna River and Chesapeake Bay converge. The downtown area is relatively small, but it is an eclectic mix of seafood restaurants, book stores, coffee shops, mariner museums, and waterside parks. There is even an outdoor sports store where you can rent bikes or other sports equipment like kayaks for day trips on the Chesapeake Bay. I look forward to being a tourist in my own backyard now and seeing all that this area has to offer.
Back to the issue of time. I consider this the most valuable natural resource in human life and I feel like I have some right now. The hours that I spent caught up in my work during my 6 years at TBC were fruitful in many ways, but my lifestyle was in direct contrast to what I believe in. The change that we made in our lives has allowed me to call a "time out" in life to process, analyze, and most importantly, reflect on what is really important. I have observed that American life is not built for much introspection, because most people I know overschedule their lives. The other thing that I would get caught up in is living every day under the pretense that life revolves around a "To Do" list. When this happens, life simply becomes a competition to see if you can get everything done that needs to be done. That is also known as a rat race. When I fall into this trap, I do not become "present" with anything that I am doing. In other words, I don't taste my food, see the trees, smell the flowers, or really listen to myself or others. During these times, I find myself hearing my wife and kids, but not fully listening to what they have to say. For me, this was just the tip of the iceberg. My decision to work so hard and not maintain proper balance in my life affected my health, and ultimately made me realize I was shortening my life in the process. Here is what I have come to figure out. Most of the things that we think have to be done are self-imposed mandates that we have quite simply imposed upon ourselves. I know we have to make a living and we all have responsibilities and obligations that must be met. However, we still have the ability to ultimately control and choose the direction that our lives take. This is why I feel really blessed to have some time right now. I have given myself permission to keep it this way for the time being and fortunately, my wife Estalita also
sees the value of this endeavor. I will continue teaching the distance ed. courses at Trinity and will begin some substitute teaching here locally within the next 2 weeks. In the meantime, I am focusing on a few business ideas that I have wanted to explore for awhile now. When my head is clear, I feel like I can be creative, so the time has also arrived for me to continue with my aspirations to write. It is my responsibility to be a good steward of my time now, so I must press on and "Seize Each Day" and do it with a sense of purpose.
Above pics are from last weekend at Rehoboth Beach, Delaware.
Lights out.